Habit & mindset

Overcoming the 3 Big Excuses: No Time, Too Old, Too Unfit

Written & reviewed by Thurairaj Manoharan · 6 Oct 2026

Medically reviewed by Thurairaj Manoharan · Updated 5 Oct 2026

Practical, evidence-based answers to the three biggest reasons people skip exercise, with the minimum that helps, for busy Malaysian adults.

Preparing shoes and resistance bands for a planned session

The three most common reasons for not exercising, “no time”, “too old” and “too unfit”, are real feelings but weak barriers. You can get meaningful benefit from short sessions, from starting late, and from starting out of shape. The practical fix for each is the same: shrink the first step until it is easy to repeat. As our longevity mindset guide explains, lasting change comes from solving the specific obstacle in front of you rather than waiting for motivation.

Excuses are not unique to you. In the National Health and Morbidity Survey 2019, about 24.6% of Malaysian adults (aged 18 and above) were physically inactive, and urban dwellers were more likely to be inactive than rural ones. If you live in the Klang Valley, the odds were stacked against you before you even laced up.

”I have no time”

This is the most common reason, and in KL and Selangor it is often true. Between the LDP at rush hour, school runs, caring for parents and a full workday, an hour at the gym can feel impossible. You do not need an hour.

What the guidelines say. The WHO recommends at least 150 to 300 minutes of moderate aerobic activity a week, or 75 to 150 minutes of vigorous activity, plus muscle-strengthening on 2 or more days a week. That is the target, not the entry price.

What small amounts do. In a UK Biobank study of 25,241 people who reported no leisure exercise, those who did short bouts of vigorous activity as part of daily life (climbing stairs briskly, hurrying uphill) had lower mortality. About 3 bouts a day of 1 to 2 minutes each was linked to a 38% to 40% lower risk of all-cause and cancer death and 48% to 49% lower cardiovascular mortality, compared with none. This was an observational study, so it shows association, not proof, but it supports the idea that very small doses count.

Three ways to make time:

  1. Exercise snacks. Two minutes of stair climbing, ten chair squats before your shower, a brisk 10-minute walk after lunch. See exercise snacks for desk workers.
  2. Two 30-minute strength sessions a week. A meta-analysis of cohort studies found that 30 to 60 minutes a week of muscle-strengthening was associated with 10% to 20% lower risk of all-cause death and of cardiovascular disease, diabetes and cancer events. Our 30-minute longevity workout fits this.
  3. Train at home. Skipping the drive removes the traffic, parking and packed bag. Strength training at home in Malaysia shows what you need.

Ask “where do I already have ten minutes?” rather than “where do I find an hour?"

"I am too old”

The evidence says otherwise. In a classic 1990 JAMA trial, ten frail nursing-home residents aged 90 on average did 8 weeks of high-intensity resistance training. Strength rose by an average of 174%, mid-thigh muscle area by 9% and tandem walking speed by 48%. It was a small study and not typical of everyone, but it showed that muscle responds even at 96.

Age changes how you train, not whether you can. In practice that means:

  • progress weights in small steps rather than big jumps;
  • allow 48 hours between strength sessions for the same muscles (see how recovery changes with age);
  • add balance and mobility alongside strength;
  • check with your doctor first if you have heart disease, uncontrolled blood pressure, diabetes on insulin or unexplained symptoms.

If you are starting later, starting exercise at 60 and fitness after retirement give a safe way in.

”I am too unfit”

This one often carries embarrassment: a gym full of fit strangers, the heat, the mirrors. But being unfit is the reason to start, not the reason to wait. People with the lowest baseline have the most room to gain in strength, walking speed and stamina.

Scale every movement:

Standard exerciseEasier versionFirst target
SquatSit to a chair and stand up2 sets of 8
RunningBrisk walking10 minutes, 3 days a week
Floor push-upWall push-up2 sets of 8
PlankHands on counter3 holds of 20 seconds
StairsOne flight, rest, repeat2 flights a day

Build time first, then load. Add 5 minutes of walking each week, or one more rep per set. Walk in the morning or evening, or in an air-conditioned mall when heat and haze make outdoors unpleasant; our guides to mall walking in the Klang Valley and indoor exercise on hot and hazy days help.

When an excuse is a signal

Sometimes the barrier is a symptom. Stop and see a doctor before continuing if you have chest pain or pressure, breathlessness out of proportion to effort, dizziness or fainting, palpitations, or a new swollen or painful calf. Joint pain that worsens each day is also worth assessing. Our guide on medical clearance before exercise lists the checks.

How to get past all three

Excuses seldom come alone. “No time” and “too unfit” often arrive together. A simple sequence:

  1. Pick one anchor you already do daily: morning coffee, parking the car, brushing your teeth.
  2. Attach a movement of under 2 minutes: five chair squats, one flight of stairs.
  3. Do it every day for 2 weeks, with no goal except repetition.
  4. Then add a 20 to 30 minute session twice a week.

The point is proving the excuse was a habit, not a wall. The systems that keep it going are in how to build an exercise habit. If you have lapsed, see how to restart exercise after a break.

If you want a plan built around your schedule, age and starting fitness, that is what our home-visit coaching across KL and Selangor does.

Key takeaways

  • About one in four Malaysian adults is physically inactive, so you are not alone.
  • Short bursts and two 30-minute strength sessions a week are linked to meaningful health benefits.
  • Muscle responds to training at any age, including the nineties, though progress is gradual.
  • Being unfit is a reason to begin at an easier level, not to wait.
  • Chest pain, fainting or unexplained breathlessness need medical review before you continue.

References

  1. Bull et al. (2020). World Health Organization 2020 guidelines on physical activity and sedentary behaviour. British Journal of Sports Medicine. — British Journal of Sports Medicine
  2. Physical Inactivity and Its Associated Factors among Adults in Malaysia: Findings from National Health and Morbidity Survey (NHMS) 2019. — Institut Kesihatan Umum / UKM
  3. Stamatakis et al. (2022). Association of wearable device-measured vigorous intermittent lifestyle physical activity with mortality. Nature Medicine. — Nature Medicine
  4. Fiatarone et al. (1990). High-intensity strength training in nonagenarians: effects on skeletal muscle. JAMA. — JAMA
  5. Momma et al. (2022). Muscle-strengthening activities are associated with lower risk and mortality in major non-communicable diseases: a systematic review and meta-analysis of cohort studies. British Journal of Sports Medicine. — British Journal of Sports Medicine

For the full picture, read the complete guide to this topic →

Written & reviewed by

Thurairaj Manoharan

Physiotherapist · 13+ years in healthcare

Paralysed by Guillain-Barré Syndrome as a teenager, Thurairaj rebuilt his body through physiotherapy, lived proof that the right movement, applied consistently, restores function.

Frequently asked questions

I genuinely have no time. What is the minimum exercise that helps?

The WHO recommends 150 to 300 minutes of moderate activity a week plus muscle strengthening on 2 or more days, but less still helps. A UK Biobank study found that about 4 minutes a day of short vigorous bursts in daily life was linked to lower mortality in people who did no formal exercise. Start with what you can repeat.

Am I too old to start exercising?

No. A well-known 1990 trial in frail nursing-home residents with an average age of 90 found large strength gains after 8 weeks of resistance training. Benefits are more gradual and recovery is slower with age, but muscle and balance still respond in your 60s, 70s and beyond.

I am very unfit and embarrassed to start. Where do I begin?

Start at your current level: chair squats, short walks, wall push-ups, two or three times a week. Low fitness is where the largest relative gains are available, and a home programme or one-to-one coach avoids the gym audience. Build duration before intensity.

How many Malaysians are physically inactive?

The National Health and Morbidity Survey 2019 found that about 24.6% of Malaysian adults aged 18 and above were physically inactive, meaning they did not meet the WHO minimum. Urban residents were more likely to be inactive than rural residents.

Is a short workout really worth it?

Yes. Short sessions count towards weekly totals, and a meta-analysis of cohort studies found that 30 to 60 minutes a week of muscle strengthening was associated with 10 to 20 percent lower risk of death from all causes and cardiovascular disease. Two 30-minute sessions a week reach that range.

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